In this world Im truely convinced you cant be nice to chicks. They say they want this nice guy but in reality no they dont. Now when I say a nice guy I mean a nigga who treats you right, does the right thing, and is doing the right thing in life. Not the nigga that you can run over. Theres a difference between someone without spine, and someone who will put you on your spine..lol
I blame my momma for making me this way. She would constantly instill all these gentleman qualities into me. Young man, always treat women with respect. Be a listener, Be honest, Show her that you care, do right by her, never let her feel less than a queen, always pull out, give her the heads up when your about to bust in her mouth. Ok maybe not the last two but you get the point…lol….So now look at what I have become a gentleman who actually gives a fuck and where does this get me? No where!
I hear vaginas say it all the time “I want a nice guy who will treat me right.” But when you get that GUY you pass. So whats the theory behind it all…..women say it but they dont mean it….they enjoy getting did dirty here & there….they dont mind getting choked out…a man about his shyt, nahhhh pass on that, they want a man who aint doing shit….Good credit? Nahhh lets get the nigga who needs to use their credit…lol..Maybe its because women are attracted to shiny things! Material things to be exact. I remember one time I dipped my dangalang in baby oil and this chick lost her mind. Hell she tooted that thang up (c) Huey and told me to pull up to her bumper (c) patra…..sidebar: That had absolutely nothing to do with this topic at all but damn that was a good night…lol…Its no wonder why you see brothas riding down the street in his civic with a pinktoe sitting by his side. Lord knows sistas would rather walk than to be caught riding in a hoopty…lol….But I digress….
For me this where keeping it real goes wrong. For the most part of life many of the girls I’ve actually been involved with ended up botching the relationship. Of course I did some non honorable things to help Im sure…lol…..Lately though I’ve been doing alot of thinking…which is never good….It was a period in my life not to long ago (a year to be exact) where I could careless about a chick. They call me, I send them to voicemail. They come over, I kick em out. They wanna cuddle, I slang pipe and find away to get them out the crib before they face could hit the pillow…. FYI Im the king of 42 fakes…lol….They ask me to go out, I make them pay for us or themselves, they wanna be loved I give em hate…lol….And all was well in my life. Everyday (atleast on myside) was drama free and these girls absolutely loved me! It was like the more ignorant shyt I did the higher I went up on the pedestal. I found it absolutely amazing!
But because of my dear mother I cant help but be a nice guy. Now If I would have followed my pops I would really be on some other shyt because when I say he doesnt care, this dude has no emotion. I believe one time I went to the freezer to get some cookies and cream ice cream and saw his heart right next to the ice cubes. So in closing in 09 Im a give ladies exactly what they want…..which is nothing….lol